Caitlyn Skolnick, LCSW, PMH‑C
telehealth across New Jersey
Postpartum anxiety & depression therapy, for New Jersey moms.
For the mom who feels anxious, low, rage-y, or just not like herself — specialized help from a perinatal therapist who actually gets it. And yes, you can bring the baby.
Licensed Clinical Social Worker in New Jersey · Perinatal Mental Health Certified
When “welcome to motherhood” feels more like drowning
Everyone asks about the baby. Almost nobody asks about you. So let's start there: how are you, really?
If you're lying awake at 2am replaying the day while the baby finally sleeps — if you've snapped at your partner again and then cried about snapping — if you love this baby fiercely and also miss your old life so much it aches — you are not broken, and you are not a bad mom. You may be dealing with postpartum anxiety or depression, and it is far more common than the highlight reels let on: roughly 1 in 5 new mothers experiences a postpartum mood or anxiety struggle.
As a postpartum therapist serving all of New Jersey, I hear the same sentences week after week: "I don't feel like myself anymore." "I'm so tired but I can't sleep." "I keep waiting to feel that overwhelming joy everyone promised." If any of those sound like yours, this page was written for you.
two things can co-exist: you can love her — and be struggling
Signs it's more than exhaustion
Every new mom is tired. Postpartum anxiety and depression are different from tired — they follow you even when the sleep improves. Flip through the signs I help New Jersey moms recognize; see how many feel familiar.
Checking the monitor again. Googling symptoms at 3am. Your chest tightening every time the baby is out of sight — even with someone you trust.
Sudden, intrusive images that make you feel like a monster. You're not. They're a symptom of postpartum anxiety — one of the most common and most treatable ones.
Snapping over the sound of chewing, a dish in the sink, one more "what's for dinner" — then drowning in guilt about who caught the outburst.
The "baby blues" lift within about two weeks of birth. If you're still underwater past that window — or sinking — that's not blues, and it deserves care.
"Everyone else can handle this. What's wrong with me?" On repeat, all day. (Nothing is wrong with you — and no, everyone else is not handling it.)
Or feeling like your family would be better off without you. If this one is loud, don't wait for a consult — call or text the free 24/7 988 Lifeline or the National Maternal Mental Health Hotline, 1‑833‑TLC‑MAMA.
Recognize a few? This is exactly what I treat, every day.
It's the title of one of my favorite books to hand new moms — because it's true. Scary thoughts don't make you a bad mother. They make you a mother whose anxiety needs a little help — and that's the most treatable thing I see.
How postpartum therapy helps
Postpartum therapy with me is not lying on a couch analyzing your childhood while the laundry piles up. It's practical, warm, and honest — a weekly hour that is entirely yours, with someone who knows this season inside and out.
I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and I hold the PMH‑C — Perinatal Mental Health Certification — an advanced credential in the mood and anxiety struggles of pregnancy and postpartum that only a small fraction of therapists have earned. That matters because postpartum anxiety doesn't behave like general anxiety, and treating it well takes specific training. I'm also a mom of three, so nothing you say about motherhood will shock me, and none of it will be judged.
Together we will:
- Name what's actually happening — anxiety, depression, rage, intrusive thoughts — so it stops feeling like a personal failing
- Quiet the 2am spiral with evidence-based tools that work in real life, not just in a workbook
- Untangle the identity whiplash — grieving who you were while becoming who you're becoming
- Rebuild the parts that got lost: your confidence, your relationship, your sense of humor, you
Most moms tell me the biggest shift is simply this: they stop white-knuckling motherhood alone. If the "who even am I now?" piece is the loudest part, I have a whole page on that too.
happy moms raise happy kids — and you count as a mom worth caring for
Online sessions across New Jersey
All sessions are held by secure video, so you can meet with a postpartum therapist from anywhere in New Jersey — the nursery during nap time, your parked car, the kitchen table at 7pm. No commute, no waiting room, no arranging childcare. Nursing, pumping, bottle-feeding, or wearing the baby during session are all completely welcome.
I'm licensed in New Jersey, which means we can work together whether you're in Maplewood or Montclair, Hoboken or Haddonfield, the shore or the suburbs. Here's exactly how online therapy works, including privacy and what you need (a phone and a door that closes, mostly).
And because postpartum recovery is more than therapy: if you also need feeding support or pelvic floor PT, these are the New Jersey providers I trust with my own clients.
Fees & using your out-of-network benefits
Sessions are $225 for 55 minutes, private pay. I'm out-of-network with insurance — on purpose. It keeps your records private, skips the diagnosis-driven limits insurers impose, and lets you work with a specialist instead of whoever is in-network and available.
Many PPO plans reimburse 50–70% of the session fee once your deductible is met. I provide superbills and partner with Mentaya to file claims for you, and you can check your out-of-network benefits in about 30 seconds here — before we ever meet.
Postpartum therapy questions, answered
How do I know if it's postpartum depression or just the baby blues?
The baby blues are real but brief — weepiness and mood swings that peak around day four or five and lift within about two weeks of birth. If you're past two weeks and still feeling anxious, flat, hopeless, or rage-y — or if things are getting heavier instead of lighter — that's the time to talk to a postpartum specialist. A free 15-minute consult is an easy, no-pressure way to check.
Can I bring my baby to therapy sessions?
Yes — truly. Sessions are online, and babies are welcome on screen. Feed, rock, bounce, pump. I'm a mom of three; a fussy baby doesn't derail our work, and needing to hold your baby is never something to apologize for.
I have scary intrusive thoughts. Does that mean something is wrong with me?
No. Intrusive thoughts are one of the most common — and least talked about — symptoms of postpartum anxiety, and having them does not mean you'll act on them or that you're a danger to your baby. They respond very well to specialized treatment. Telling a PMH-C certified therapist about them is the fastest way to take their power away.
How long does postpartum therapy take to work?
Most moms feel a real shift within the first handful of sessions — often just from being able to say the unsayable out loud to someone who isn't rattled by it. We'll set goals together and check progress as we go; this is your hour, not an open-ended commitment.
Do you take insurance for postpartum therapy in New Jersey?
I'm out-of-network, and many clients get 50–70% of the $225 session fee reimbursed through their plan's out-of-network benefits. I provide superbills and partner with Mentaya to make the paperwork painless — and my fees page has a free benefits checker so you'll know your real cost before we start.
You were never meant to carry this season alone
Fifteen minutes, free, no pressure. Ask me anything about postpartum therapy — you don't have to decide a thing today.
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